Hi, Dr. Rossanna,
I e-mailed you last week about a friend who had pancreatic cancer, you gave me some ideas of where to start etc. Your advise helped me a great deal, thank you
I worked on her yesterday, I asked her how long she had the cancer - it started 4 years ago in her cervix, it was a very rare cancer that is usually found in the lungs of people who don't smoke, she had chemo and it went into remission, then it re appeared in one of her lymph glands, again it went into remission, it is now in the pancreas he had chemo and it shrank a bit, but the second lot has not done much, she is due for more extensive chemo in about 3 weeks.
I asked her how she felt about it and was she angry, she said no she saw a lot of young people with it in the cancer clinic and she is very thankful that she has had 4 years when she was initially told probably 1 year, and that she has seen her kids grow up. she is a very positive person.
I asked what was else was happening at the time, she thought about it for a while and said "I know , my husband bought a shop, I didn't want him to buy it but he put a deposit on it without telling me, then I had to work it it because he was busy in his other job, it was hard, heavy work, but in between very boring and I didn't want to be there and that's why I have cancer". I didn't expect such a profound statement so soon and I don't think she had thought of this being the cause until he began to talk.
We tapped on lots of things related to this, anger, resentment, etc.
We also tapped on even though I don't want to let go of this anger, we got - I want to be angry with him, its all his fault, only thinks about himself, made me work hard and I hurt my stomach muscles lifting heavy pots etc .....
I really appreciate your help and support, I know you must be very busy and probably have lots of people asking for help, without the guidance you sent in your e-mail I wouldn't have got to the possible core of this so early in our sessions, if at all, I know there are probably a lot of issues she has as well but I feel that we are off to a good start, thanks again.
sending lots of love, light and heaps of gratitude
Barb Kavanagh
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